The 9 Best Parenting Books For Dads
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Nine books for fathers, from pregnancy guides to raising daughters and sons, compared by stage, tone and faith. The Expectant Father leads for dads-to-be. When users buy our independently chosen editorial selections, we may earn commissions to help fund the Wiki.
Most pregnancy and baby books are written for mothers, so fathers end up skimming chapters that aren't about them. The books here speak to dads directly, from the first ultrasound through the teenage years. Pick one for the stage you're in now, and check the edition date, since advice on infant sleep and feeding has changed over the years.
Editor's Notes
November 1, 2026, by Ezvid Wiki Editors:
The Expectant Father stays at the top, now in its fifth edition, because it gives a father's own worries as much room as the pregnancy itself. The New Father, Be Prepared and Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters stay too, each in a newer edition.
We dropped The Dad's Edge, which we could find only as an audiobook, and Better Dads, Stronger Sons, an older title whose ground The Intentional Father covers with a clearer plan. Calm the F*ck Down is about parenting in general, Dad's Playbook is mostly quotes, and Dude, You're Gonna Be a Dad! and The New Dad's Survival Guide have aged.
New picks fill gaps by stage: We're Pregnant! and We're Parents! for quick reads, The Daily Dad for a page a day and The New Dad's Playbook for sports fans. Nobody lab-tests parenting books, so we checked each book's current edition, read publisher descriptions and reviews written by fathers on parenting sites, and flagged the books that take a Christian view.
Earlier notes
March 2, 2019, by Brett Dvoretz:
It is no secret that being a parent is one of the hardest things you can do in life. At the same time, it is also probably the single most rewarding thing too. While there is no instruction manual on how to be a great dad, many of the books on this list come very close. The type of advice you are looking for will most likely be the deciding factor in which of these you choose, though in all likelihood, you should probably read more than one. If you are concerned about being the type of father than a son grows up idolizing and privately insecure on your ability to do so, Better Dads, Stronger Sons is for you. It should also help you create a stronger relationship with your male progeny that can withstand all the strains that it is bound to encounter. Stronger Fathers, Stronger Daughters runs along many of the same types of concepts, but with a twist for men who are raising a girl. If you are stressing out about a little bundle of joy on the horizon or one that has just recently arrived, The Expectant Father, Be Prepared, The New Father, You're Gonna Be a Dad!, and The New Dad's Survival Guide are excellent reads that can make your new reality a little less daunting. Those who just need a bit of inspiration to refuel their tanks should take a look at Dad's Playbook.
Special Honors
Postpartum Support International This nonprofit runs a free helpline, online support groups and a provider directory, with a section and peer meetings just for fathers dealing with depression or anxiety after a baby arrives. postpartum.net
National Responsible Fatherhood Clearinghouse Funded by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, it offers free tip sheets, research summaries and a directory of local fatherhood programs for dads at every stage. fatherhood.gov
Pick The Book For The Stage You're In
, We're Parents! and Be Prepared break the advice into short bits you can finish between feedings.
A dad-to-be and the father of a 12-year-old need different books. Pregnancy guides end at the birth or soon after, first-year guides start with the newborn, and a third group deals with the long haul of raising a child. Reading one book per stage works better than buying a stack at once. Fathercraft makes a similar point when it praises Be Prepared as a book a tired father can actually finish.
Reference books such as The Expectant Father and The New Father run long and are meant to be read a month at a time. Quick reads like We're Pregnant!, We're Parents! and Be Prepared break the advice into short bits you can finish between feedings. The ReadThisTwice list of books for dads puts Be Prepared and The Expectant Father at the top, with We're Pregnant! close behind.
For later years, the choice gets more personal. The Daily Dad offers a page of reflection a day for a father at any stage, while Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters and The Intentional Father are written for fathers of girls and boys.
Check The Edition Date And The Viewpoint
Advice about babies changes. Current safe-sleep guidance calls for putting a baby down on the back, on a firm, flat surface, with nothing soft in the crib, and older editions may not say all of that. Any book on this list should give way to your pediatrician and to the Safe to Sleep campaign run by the National Institutes of Health. That's why we chose the current editions: the fifth of The Expectant Father, the fourth of The New Father and the 20th anniversary edition of Be Prepared.
Several of these books also come from a Christian point of view. Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters, The New Dad's Playbook and The Intentional Father all bring faith into their advice, and the last two come from Baker Publishing Group, a Christian publisher. Many readers want that and others don't, so each review says it plainly.
Most of these books are also written for American families. Chapters on insurance, parental leave and hospital routines assume U.S. rules, so readers elsewhere can skim those parts.
Dads Get The Baby Blues, Too
New fathers can struggle in ways that parenting books often skip. Postpartum Support International says studies show about one in ten dads experiences postpartum depression, and some develop anxiety during the pregnancy or the first year. In men it can show up as anger, irritability or pulling away rather than sadness. The group runs a free helpline and support meetings just for dads.
A book helps most when it gets you talking. Read a chapter, then compare notes with your partner about what you each expect from nights, money and work. Hospitals and birth centers often run childbirth and newborn-care classes that welcome fathers, and a pediatrician visit is the place for questions a book can't answer about your own baby.
For wider support, the federal National Responsible Fatherhood Clearinghouse collects tips, research and listings of local fatherhood programs at no cost.
How we researched this
We compared about 20 books written for fathers, including every title from the earlier version of this page, checked each one's current edition, publisher and length in Open Library's records, read publisher descriptions and reviews by fathers on parenting sites, and noted which books take a faith-based approach. Books get no lab tests, so the order weighs content, edition date and how well each fits a stage of fatherhood.
Sources (9)
- Fathercraft: best books for expecting dads
- ReadThisTwice: best books for dads
- Peacock Parent: 10 best books for first-time dads
- Dadzilluh: best books for new dads
- Open Library
- Postpartum Support International: help for dads
- NIH Safe to Sleep campaign
- National Responsible Fatherhood Clearinghouse
- Baker Publishing Group
Frequently asked questions
Do dads need their own parenting book?
Not strictly, but most pregnancy and baby books speak to mothers. A book written for fathers covers what you're feeling and doing, which makes it easier to stay involved from the start.
What's a good first book for an expectant father?
The Expectant Father is the most thorough month-by-month guide. If you'd rather read something short and funny, We're Pregnant! covers the same months week by week.
Which books are for dads of daughters or sons?
Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters, by pediatrician Meg Meeker, is written for fathers of girls. The Intentional Father, by Jon Tyson, lays out a plan for raising boys. Both take a Christian view.
Are any of these books religious?
Yes. Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters, The New Dad's Playbook and The Intentional Father bring Christian faith into their advice. The Brott, Kulp, Greenberg and Holiday books are secular.
Is an older edition fine to buy used?
For the big reference guides, get the current edition. Advice on safe sleep, feeding and car seats changes, and older printings can be out of date. Humor and reflection books age better.
